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My knitting group almost exiled someone for using the wrong yarn brand | Cancel Culture Courtroom - Opinions Matter

My knitting group almost exiled someone for using the wrong yarn brand

In my experience, call-out culture has seeped into the weirdest places. Our chill knitting circle got into a huge fight because one member used a brand that another person said had bad ethics from ten years ago. It turned into this whole thing with people digging up old forum posts and everything. I mean, we're here to make scarves, not conduct ethics audits on every skein. Your mileage may vary, but it felt so silly to watch friendships strain over yarn. Take this with a grain of salt, but maybe we should focus more on the knitting and less on the cancelling.

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barbara_schmidt687mo ago

Was the person who called out the yarn brand always looking for a fight, or did this come out of nowhere? It sounds like the real issue might be some old tension that finally found a spark. Did the group talk about why this felt like such a big deal, or did everyone just pick sides and start arguing? Sometimes these blow-ups are really about something else that nobody wants to say out loud. I'm curious if the group can get past this, or if the trust is just gone now.

the_spencer7mo ago

During our Tuesday knitting group, Lisa brought up how Caron yarn pills after one wash. She wasn't trying to start drama, she just saved me from ruining a baby blanket. The reaction was huge because five of us had bought the same yarn on sale. We actually paused the argument and checked our own projects to compare. Turns out she was right, and we all agreed to avoid that batch. The trust got stronger because we listened instead of picking sides.

tyler67mo ago

Remember when my friend's book club almost broke up over a paperback cover? They realized the fight wasn't about the art, it was about feeling like no one listened the month before. They got past it by just admitting that part out loud.