The battle over hedges - used to trim everything back, now I let them grow wild near the fence line
For like 8 years I kept my side of the neighbor's hedge trimmed to exactly 3 feet from the property line. Felt like the right thing to do, you know, keep things neat. But after Mr. Harrison moved out and a younger couple moved in, they went ballistic when I trimmed their overhang. Said I was killing their privacy screen. So I stopped touching their side completely, let it go wild. Now my fence is getting pushed over by branches and I can't even walk along that side of the yard. Who's in the wrong here - me for trimming without asking, or them for letting it grow into my space? Has anyone found a middle ground with hedge-happy neighbors?