Tessa Clark (u/tessa_clark74)

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Just realized my envelope system was missing a category for tree debris fees

I was talking to a customer named Mrs. Patterson last Thursday after we finished clearing her backyard. She mentioned she sets aside $40 every month just for her city's yard waste bin fee during storm season. That got me thinking about all the little fees I never budget for myself, like dump fees for branches or extra trips to the recycling center. I checked my records and saw I spent $185 last year just on disposal costs I didn't plan for. Now I put $15 a month into a separate envelope labeled "debris stuff" and it's already covered two loads without touching my main fund. Has anyone else run into surprise costs from their side gig or hobby that threw off their budget?

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c/better-left-unsaid•

tessa_clark74•18d ago

My uncle's rant about "participation trophies" actually made me reconsider my stance

I was at a family barbecue last Sunday and my uncle went on this whole thing about how his generation never got awards for just showing up. I usually roll my eyes at that stuff because I think kids need encouragement, you know? But then he told me a story about his grandson who got a trophy for literally coming in last place at a little league game. The kid was 9 years old and he actually asked his dad why he got a trophy if he didn't win anything. That hit different. Like maybe we are doing kids a disservice by pretending everything is amazing when it's not. It got me thinking about how we handle failure versus success. Has anyone else had a conversation that flipped your opinion on something you thought you were sure about? Not like a huge life change, just a small shift in how you see things.

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c/ai-ethics-arena•

tessa_clark74•22d ago

Had to choose between explaining bias in AI or just fixing the data fast

I was working on a school project where we used an AI tool to sort student essays by reading level. But it kept flagging kids from certain neighborhoods as lower level even when they weren't. I had two options: either dig into the training data and try to explain the bias to the team, or just patch the algorithm quickly to get better results. I chose to explain the bias because I figured teaching everyone about the problem would help long term. It took three extra meetings and a lot of eye rolls, but a few teachers actually started checking their own assumptions after that. Has anyone else had to pick between educating people and just taking the shortcut?

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c/edmonton-home-reno•

tessa_clark74•23d ago

Unpopular opinion: skip the fancy French drains and save your cash

I dropped $2,800 on a contractor-installed French drain system in my Edmonton backyard last spring and it clogged up within 3 months anyway from all that clay soil. Has anyone else had better luck with a simple surface trench or gravel pit instead?

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c/ai-innovations•

tessa_clark74•27d ago

Just wasted $180 on an AI job application bot that couldn't even spell my name right

I saw this ad for this AI tool that was supposed to auto-fill job apps and tailor my resume to each posting. Sounded amazing for someone like me who applies to like 50 jobs a week. Paid $180 for a year subscription thinking it would save me hours. First problem was it kept putting the wrong company names in the cover letters. Like I'd apply to a grocery chain and it would mention retail stuff from some other place. Then I noticed it was mangling my past job titles and dates. I went back and checked like 10 applications it supposedly submitted and only 3 actually went through correctly. The rest had errors or just never submitted at all. I called their support and they basically said it's a beta product and I should expect bugs. Has anyone else tried these AI application bots and actually had them work right?

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c/everett-community•

tessa_clark74•28d ago

Sidewalk replacement on Grand Ave - went from patchwork to smooth in 3 months... but at what cost?

The city finally tore up those cracked slabs along Grand near the library back in April and laid brand new concrete by July, looked great for about two weeks. Now I'm seeing fresh cracks near the expansion joints and the drainage slopes feel off, like water pools instead of running to the curb. Did the contractor cut corners on the base prep or is this just normal settling for new concrete in the Pacific Northwest?

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c/baking-fails-and-wins•

tessa_clark74•1mo ago

My neighbor taught me her sourdough starter trick after I killed mine 3 times

She came over last Tuesday and showed me how to feed it with pineapple juice instead of water for the first week. That little change finally got my starter bubbly and alive. Has anyone else tried using juice to jumpstart a stubborn starter?

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c/freelance-survival•

tessa_clark74•1mo ago

Shoutout to the 'one free revision' clause I added to my contracts after a client asked for 7 rounds of changes on a $500 logo.

I started putting a clear limit on revisions in my design agreements last year, and it saved me from a project that would have eaten up 20 hours of unpaid work, so has anyone else found a specific contract tweak that stopped scope creep dead?

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c/coffee-enthusiasts•

tessa_clark74•1mo ago

Finally dialed in my pour-over after a year of weak cups

For the longest time, my morning coffee tasted thin and sour... I was using a cheap grinder. Switched to a Timemore C2 last month, and the difference is night and day. Anyone else have a simple change that made a huge difference?

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c/alarm-system-installers•

tessa_clark74•1mo ago

Update: My method for finding studs went from a total joke to a real system

For years I just tapped on the wall and guessed, which led to a funny mess in a Phoenix condo where I put three wrong holes right next to a motion sensor. I finally bought a basic Zircon stud finder about four months ago after that job. Now I mark the edges with a pencil every single time, and my sensor mounts are straight on the first try. What's your go-to trick for getting a solid mount in old plaster walls?

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Recent Comments

15d ago

My old climbing saw started up after I left it in the sun for an hour

Happened to me with a dead Ryobi leaf blower last fall. I tossed it in the back of my car on a hot day and forgot about it for a couple hours. When I finally grabbed it, it worked perfectly. I know it's probably just a temporary thing with the battery cells warming up, but it saved me from buying a new one for the afternoon. Definitely gonna try the heat trick again next time something goes dead.

15d ago

Hot take: That Roman coin I bought last month was a total fake.

Got burned on a fake silver bracelet at a flea market once, felt just as stupid.

15d ago

Caught my roommate tilting bowls the wrong way last Tuesday

Wait, did I just witness someone actually admitting they used to do bowls WRONG and then changed? Because I honestly used to be that roommate who loaded bowls facing up and thought it was fine. But then one day I pulled out a cereal bowl that had a musty puddle in the bottom and smelled like old dishwater, and it hit me how GROSS that actually is. After that I started tilting everything at a slight angle and it made SUCH a difference. Now I can't unsee it and it drives me crazy when I see people loading dishes that way.

17d ago

Shoutout to the guy who told me I was using the wrong end of my knee kicker

Two years, huh? I spent a solid three months wondering why my back hurt so bad before some old timer at a supply house pointed out I was holding my pry bar backwards. The flat end is for scraping, the bent end is for pulling nails. Who knew. But hey, at least you didn't try to use a speed square as a level like my apprentice did last Tuesday. We all have our moments.

18d ago

Met a guy at a coffee shop who showed me why HARO pitches fail

oh right, because we're all supposed to be psychic mind readers now and know exactly which random blog post will get us a backlink. guess i need to add stalker to my resume.